How to avoid losing your temper with a sexual predators?
November 22nd, 2008 by adminif you child is being sexually acculated how do you avoid lossing your temper and getting even with them.
It is a devastating thing to hear of that a child's innocence and safety has been stripped away prematurely - that someone who SHOULD have the morality, decency, and intelligence as an adult to protect our youth. I also understand how gut wrenching it is to have your own family member suffer such an event. Nothing in the world has made me understand what "disgust" is like a sexual offender.
This is what kept me from violating someone ELSE'S rights and dignity (even if that person didn't deserve any to begin with) when he stepped across the line from humanity to worthless monster - sexual predators who commit crimes against children have an unfortunate fettish. For many, that desire really is uncontrollable - sure they can keep from ACTING on their desires, but the desires themselves are ingrained so deep by years of conditioning, maltreatment, even biological disfunction. The truth is - even by punishing a child predator with imprisonment, therapy, medications, and almost anything else under the sun, NOTHING fixes them. If their decision to molest a child was solely up to them, if it was completely of their own volition, you would hear of sexual predators who had been rehabilitated by the system - but you DON'T. Unless they are chemically or medically castrated, there is nothing that will stop their sexual desires. So I am comforted, to some degree, to think that it isn't completely their fault - they are sick, they lack self control, and if the right thing is done, they will lose their sex drive altogether. That is all I can do to keep from getting even with such a heinous person.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 12:12 am
Why not lose your temper?
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November 23rd, 2008 at 12:49 am
"acculated"? WTH is that?
I'd get them put in jail! why the hell wouldn't you get mad?
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November 23rd, 2008 at 1:31 am
Loose your temper. (Let your feelings out.) There's nothing wrong with that. Then, turn your attention to you child and leave the pedophile to the police.
Your child should be your focus, not his molester.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:20 am
o.o
I think there's nothing wrong for a parent to get mad - it's your child. But, I suppose you can indirectly backfire their advances like how one pretends to not know he/she insults his/her target while pissing the person off on purpose.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 2:45 am
i really can't say how i would react because i've been fortunate not to have had that experience. however, knowing myself as i do, i'd probably hunt him/her down and do something very harmful to him/her.
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November 23rd, 2008 at 3:13 am
It is a devastating thing to hear of that a child's innocence and safety has been stripped away prematurely - that someone who SHOULD have the morality, decency, and intelligence as an adult to protect our youth. I also understand how gut wrenching it is to have your own family member suffer such an event. Nothing in the world has made me understand what "disgust" is like a sexual offender.
This is what kept me from violating someone ELSE'S rights and dignity (even if that person didn't deserve any to begin with) when he stepped across the line from humanity to worthless monster - sexual predators who commit crimes against children have an unfortunate fettish. For many, that desire really is uncontrollable - sure they can keep from ACTING on their desires, but the desires themselves are ingrained so deep by years of conditioning, maltreatment, even biological disfunction. The truth is - even by punishing a child predator with imprisonment, therapy, medications, and almost anything else under the sun, NOTHING fixes them. If their decision to molest a child was solely up to them, if it was completely of their own volition, you would hear of sexual predators who had been rehabilitated by the system - but you DON'T. Unless they are chemically or medically castrated, there is nothing that will stop their sexual desires. So I am comforted, to some degree, to think that it isn't completely their fault - they are sick, they lack self control, and if the right thing is done, they will lose their sex drive altogether. That is all I can do to keep from getting even with such a heinous person.
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