Do you realize now why temper control is so difficult to achieve?

At the end of a temper tantrum there is always the feeling of pleasure and, at its beginning, the anticipation of pleasure. This is the crux of the issue of temper: the anticipation of pleasure places a premium on the outburst. To curb temper, then, means to forgo a keen pleasure. And the average person is not easily induced to give up pleasure even if it is a pleasure that hurts.

I must be special then, I experience no pleasure at the end of a so-called "temper tantrum".