Comments for Temper Control http://www.temperantia.net Information about Temper Control Mon, 15 Mar 2010 11:46:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by Empowering Parents http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2297 Empowering Parents Wed, 05 Aug 2009 21:28:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2297 One of the biggest mistakes parents make is to try to help their child “work through” their tantrum. Behaviors associated with tantrums should not be acceptable to you or your family. As adults, we would not sit back and accept a person screaming, swearing, or throwing things at us, so we should not accept this from our children either. Children need to learn early on that when this behavior starts, they will be isolated from the rest of the family until they find more appropriate ways to act. When your child is done with their tantrum they may feel embarrassed or sad. This is a good time to talk about why their behavior was wrong and also ways to do better in the future. A lot of love, patience, and hugs can go a long way at this point.<br><b>References : </b><br>http://www.empoweringparents.com/Stopping-a-temper-tantrum.php One of the biggest mistakes parents make is to try to help their child “work through” their tantrum. Behaviors associated with tantrums should not be acceptable to you or your family. As adults, we would not sit back and accept a person screaming, swearing, or throwing things at us, so we should not accept this from our children either. Children need to learn early on that when this behavior starts, they will be isolated from the rest of the family until they find more appropriate ways to act. When your child is done with their tantrum they may feel embarrassed or sad. This is a good time to talk about why their behavior was wrong and also ways to do better in the future. A lot of love, patience, and hugs can go a long way at this point.
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]]> Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by ♪♫♪Music Saves My Soul♪♫♪ http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2296 ♪♫♪Music Saves My Soul♪♫♪ Wed, 05 Aug 2009 21:03:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2296 I feel so sorry for them. Its so embarrasing to have your child screaming in public.<br><b>References : </b><br>I have five little cousins all under the age of 10 I feel so sorry for them. Its so embarrasing to have your child screaming in public.
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I have five little cousins all under the age of 10

]]> Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by Jillian ~*Cohen's mummy*~ http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2295 Jillian ~*Cohen's mummy*~ Wed, 05 Aug 2009 20:42:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2295 I think "i've been thorugh that" or " i'm glad Cohen's not doing that right now" knock on wood. i have a 2 year old and msot of them throw tantrums. anyone who thinks kids shouldn't or don't hasn't raised any<br><b>References : </b><br> I think "i’ve been thorugh that" or " i’m glad Cohen’s not doing that right now" knock on wood. i have a 2 year old and msot of them throw tantrums. anyone who thinks kids shouldn’t or don’t hasn’t raised any
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]]> Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by india lima foxtrot http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2294 india lima foxtrot Wed, 05 Aug 2009 20:31:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2294 I think "stay strong, don't give in!"<br><b>References : </b><br> I think "stay strong, don’t give in!"
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]]> Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by stephen http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2293 stephen Wed, 05 Aug 2009 20:08:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2293 Just today I saw a father carrying his screaming three year-old out of target. He was as calm as he could be. I thought, "What good parenting. The dad is dealing with the tantrum without loosing it himself." Every kid has tantrums.<br><b>References : </b><br> Just today I saw a father carrying his screaming three year-old out of target. He was as calm as he could be. I thought, "What good parenting. The dad is dealing with the tantrum without loosing it himself." Every kid has tantrums.
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]]> Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by anne_deezoff http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2292 anne_deezoff Wed, 05 Aug 2009 19:45:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2292 "Poor people. We've all been through it."<br><b>References : </b><br> "Poor people. We’ve all been through it."
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]]> Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by chey_one http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2291 chey_one Wed, 05 Aug 2009 19:08:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2291 I am going to respond so different than all the others - but that's because I have a special needs child. I don't think anything - good or bad. I wonder if the child has a disability that provoked it. That often happens for no reason. Call it meltdown. If anything, I'd wonder if there were anything I could do. For instance, my son would do anything to make someone else pleased. That being the case I'd wonder if I asked if I could help if maybe I could. Just a different kind of answer.<br><b>References : </b><br> I am going to respond so different than all the others - but that’s because I have a special needs child.

I don’t think anything - good or bad. I wonder if the child has a disability that provoked it. That often happens for no reason. Call it meltdown.

If anything, I’d wonder if there were anything I could do. For instance, my son would do anything to make someone else pleased. That being the case I’d wonder if I asked if I could help if maybe I could.

Just a different kind of answer.
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]]> Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by Skye http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2290 Skye Wed, 05 Aug 2009 18:43:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2290 I guess it depends more on how they react to the tantrum. If they stand there yelling at the child telling them to stop it, I think yeah that's bad parenting. If they give in to the child and give them what they want, yes that is bad parenting and will only encourage future tantrums. If they are picking the child up to take them home, they are dealing with it well. If they are ignoring the tantrum and not reacting to it at all that is possibly one of the best things they can do to prevent future trantrums.<br><b>References : </b><br> I guess it depends more on how they react to the tantrum. If they stand there yelling at the child telling them to stop it, I think yeah that’s bad parenting. If they give in to the child and give them what they want, yes that is bad parenting and will only encourage future tantrums. If they are picking the child up to take them home, they are dealing with it well. If they are ignoring the tantrum and not reacting to it at all that is possibly one of the best things they can do to prevent future trantrums.
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]]> Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by The Negotiator http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2289 The Negotiator Wed, 05 Aug 2009 17:53:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2289 its not really a tantrum that makes me feel in any way like you know but its when they start swearing because i was in a mall the other i saw this kid 7 tops and he was shouting mum for fuck sake i want the fucking toy whatever it was and was like sheesh bad parents<br><b>References : </b><br> its not really a tantrum that makes me feel in any way like you know but its when they start swearing because i was in a mall the other i saw this kid 7 tops and he was shouting mum for fuck sake i want the fucking toy whatever it was and was like sheesh bad parents
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]]> Comment on When you see a kid having a temper tantrum what do you think of the parents? by Natasha http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2288 Natasha Wed, 05 Aug 2009 17:33:59 +0000 http://www.temperantia.net/temper-tantrum/when-you-see-a-kid-having-a-temper-tantrum-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents#comment-2288 i use to think that. i also was one of those people that would say my child would never act like that. boy was i wrong. i think at some point every child will have a melt-down. and i sympathize with these parents because my own child has acted out before in public. it doesn't mean you are a bad parent.<br><b>References : </b><br> i use to think that. i also was one of those people that would say my child would never act like that. boy was i wrong. i think at some point every child will have a melt-down. and i sympathize with these parents because my own child has acted out before in public. it doesn’t mean you are a bad parent.
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